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  • July 2022
    • Jul 5, 2022 Now Available: Newly Revised Book on Anxiety Jul 5, 2022
  • February 2022
    • Feb 22, 2022 Newly Revised Book on Anxiety Now Available Feb 22, 2022
  • December 2021
    • Dec 22, 2021 2021 Year End Review Dec 22, 2021
  • August 2021
    • Aug 31, 2021 Do You Know the Stages of Temptation? Aug 31, 2021
  • July 2021
    • Jul 20, 2021 Fighting Temptation Jul 20, 2021
  • April 2021
    • Apr 28, 2021 Anxiety and Micro-Threats Apr 28, 2021
  • December 2020
    • Dec 27, 2020 2020 Meets Isaiah 9: “Nevertheless!” Dec 27, 2020
    • Dec 7, 2020 2020 "A Year of Amazing Ministry Opportunities!" Dec 7, 2020
  • February 2020
    • Feb 18, 2020 Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change Feb 18, 2020
  • December 2019
    • Dec 2, 2019 2019 Year End Celebration! Dec 2, 2019
  • October 2019
    • Oct 21, 2019 Love Others for the Long Term Oct 21, 2019
  • September 2019
    • Sep 16, 2019 Relate to God in Real Time Sep 16, 2019
  • August 2019
    • Aug 12, 2019 Practicing Gospel Awareness or "Christian Mindfulness" Aug 12, 2019
  • July 2019
    • Jul 1, 2019 The Key to Change Jul 1, 2019
  • June 2019
    • Jun 17, 2019 Motivations: Getting Below the Surface Jun 17, 2019
  • May 2019
    • May 27, 2019 Do Your Responses to Your Circumstances Matter? May 27, 2019
    • May 6, 2019 Should You Care About Your Past? May 6, 2019
  • April 2019
    • Apr 22, 2019 Emotions and Growth in Grace Apr 22, 2019
    • Apr 1, 2019 Personality Assessments: Are They Helpful? Apr 1, 2019
  • March 2019
    • Mar 20, 2019 That Wonderful/Horrible Word Mar 20, 2019
    • Mar 11, 2019 The Accidental Counselor Mar 11, 2019
  • February 2019
    • Feb 4, 2019 Christian Mindfulness? Feb 4, 2019
  • December 2018
    • Dec 10, 2018 Year End Reflection and Celebration of God’s Faithfulness! Dec 10, 2018
  • October 2018
    • Oct 1, 2018 "Unstuck" Available for Pre-Order! Oct 1, 2018
  • September 2018
    • Sep 13, 2018 What is the Fruit of Emotional Intelligence? Sep 13, 2018
  • August 2018
    • Aug 23, 2018 What Is Emotional Intelligence? Aug 23, 2018
  • July 2018
    • Jul 23, 2018 Emotional Intelligence and the Brain Jul 23, 2018
    • Jul 2, 2018 Finding Grace in Loss and Transition Jul 2, 2018
  • June 2018
    • Jun 22, 2018 What Are Emotions? Jun 22, 2018
  • May 2018
    • May 8, 2018 Does your marriage need a tune-up? May 8, 2018
  • March 2018
    • Mar 27, 2018 The New Normal: Resurrection Living Mar 27, 2018
  • September 2017
    • Sep 24, 2017 Parenting and Emotional Intelligence Sep 24, 2017
    • Sep 5, 2017 Marriage and Emotional Intelligence Sep 5, 2017
  • July 2017
    • Jul 30, 2017 Leadership and Emotional Intelligence Jul 30, 2017
  • May 2017
    • May 16, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step Eight May 16, 2017
  • March 2017
    • Mar 19, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step Seven Mar 19, 2017
    • Mar 1, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step Six Mar 1, 2017
  • February 2017
    • Feb 12, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step Five Feb 12, 2017
    • Feb 1, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step Four Feb 1, 2017
  • January 2017
    • Jan 15, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step Three Jan 15, 2017
    • Jan 9, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step Two Jan 9, 2017
    • Jan 3, 2017 How to Grow in Grace: Step One Jan 3, 2017
  • November 2016
    • Nov 14, 2016 Is Worry A Sin? Nov 14, 2016
  • October 2016
    • Oct 24, 2016 Five Ways Worry Can Be Helpful Oct 24, 2016
    • Oct 3, 2016 How Does the Bible Define Worry? Oct 3, 2016
  • September 2016
    • Sep 12, 2016 What Exactly Is Anxiety? Sep 12, 2016
  • August 2016
    • Aug 24, 2016 What Causes Us To Worry? Aug 24, 2016
    • Aug 17, 2016 Are You Stressed Out? Aug 17, 2016
  • April 2016
    • Apr 10, 2016 The Soul of Shame Apr 10, 2016
    • Apr 4, 2016 Website Merge Apr 4, 2016
  • February 2016
    • Feb 20, 2016 Four Pillars for a Lasting Marriage Feb 20, 2016
    • Feb 7, 2016 Four Things to Help Overcome Gridlock in Your Marriage Feb 7, 2016
  • January 2016
    • Jan 30, 2016 Two Things You Need When You Disagree With Your Spouse Jan 30, 2016
    • Jan 23, 2016 The Most Important Ingredient to Improve Your Marriage Jan 23, 2016
    • Jan 4, 2016 Four Things That Could Be Hurting Your Marriage This Year Jan 4, 2016
  • December 2015
    • Dec 8, 2015 What Should We Make of Personality Disorders? Dec 8, 2015
    • Dec 2, 2015 Is Worry Making Us Sick? Dec 2, 2015
  • September 2015
    • Sep 23, 2015 A Glass Half Full Sep 23, 2015
  • August 2015
    • Aug 31, 2015 Google Life Aug 31, 2015
    • Aug 25, 2015 When Culture Feels Scary Aug 25, 2015
    • Aug 11, 2015 Unanswered Prayers Aug 11, 2015
    • Aug 5, 2015 Epidemic Worry Aug 5, 2015
  • June 2015
    • Jun 24, 2015 You Never Know Who Might be Listening Jun 24, 2015
  • May 2015
    • May 11, 2015 Addiction and Family May 11, 2015
  • March 2015
    • Mar 9, 2015 What Does it Take to Survive and Thrive in Ministry? Mar 9, 2015
  • February 2015
    • Feb 18, 2015 Fighting to Believe Feb 18, 2015
  • January 2015
    • Jan 15, 2015 Slander in the Camp Jan 15, 2015
    • Jan 6, 2015 Christmas and the New Year Jan 6, 2015
  • November 2014
    • Nov 3, 2014 Until the Dawn Appears Nov 3, 2014
  • October 2014
    • Oct 23, 2014 Doubts, Guilt and the Lord's Supper Oct 23, 2014
    • Oct 6, 2014 The Canterbury Tales: Transforming Culture? Oct 6, 2014
  • August 2014
    • Aug 5, 2014 A Web of Care: External Resources Aug 5, 2014
  • July 2014
    • Jul 22, 2014 A Web of Care: Internal Resources Jul 22, 2014
  • June 2014
    • Jun 3, 2014 Redeeming Group Conflicts Jun 3, 2014
  • May 2014
    • May 12, 2014 How to Avoid Cynicism May 12, 2014
    • May 5, 2014 Why I Am Skeptical of Church Surveys May 5, 2014
  • April 2014
    • Apr 27, 2014 Can Blessings be a Trial? Apr 27, 2014
  • March 2014
    • Mar 17, 2014 One Core Element of Worry and its “Cure” Mar 17, 2014
    • Mar 3, 2014 Even in Crises, the Church Must be Involved Mar 3, 2014
  • February 2014
    • Feb 24, 2014 When Should A Church Seek Outside Help? Feb 24, 2014
    • Feb 10, 2014 Will Counseling Make a Church Turn Inward? Feb 10, 2014
    • Feb 3, 2014 Should the Church do Counseling? Feb 3, 2014
  • January 2014
    • Jan 31, 2014 Criminal Under My Own Hat Jan 31, 2014
    • Jan 23, 2014 Heaven and Sex: Future Invading the Present Jan 23, 2014
    • Jan 21, 2014 Sex, Intimacy, Pornography and Heaven Jan 21, 2014
    • Jan 16, 2014 Heaven: Better Than Sex? Jan 16, 2014
    • Jan 14, 2014 Sex and Heaven? Jan 14, 2014
    • Jan 6, 2014 When the New Year Doesn't Feel New Jan 6, 2014
  • December 2013
    • Dec 23, 2013 Domesticated Jesus Dec 23, 2013
    • Dec 22, 2013 Christmas: Sentimentality or Reality Dec 22, 2013
    • Dec 18, 2013 Thoughts on a Funeral at Christmas Dec 18, 2013
    • Dec 12, 2013 Long Term Crisis: Who Do You Care For? Dec 12, 2013
    • Dec 11, 2013 Long Term Care: The Obvious But Often Forgotten Dec 11, 2013
    • Dec 10, 2013 Phases of Care in a Long Term Crisis Dec 10, 2013
    • Dec 6, 2013 Small Group Strategy for Long Term Care Dec 6, 2013
    • Dec 4, 2013 Practical Strategies For Pastoral Care Dec 4, 2013
    • Dec 3, 2013 Going the Distance in Pastoral Care Dec 3, 2013
    • Dec 2, 2013 Cultivating a Christian Memory Dec 2, 2013
  • November 2013
    • Nov 27, 2013 Practical Ways to Love Your Family Nov 27, 2013
    • Nov 26, 2013 Who Can Help You Love Your Family? Nov 26, 2013
    • Nov 25, 2013 Home For the Holidays: Are You Prepared? Nov 25, 2013
    • Nov 22, 2013 Pursuing Strategic Change Nov 22, 2013
    • Nov 21, 2013 Hindrances to a Shepherding/Equipping Model Nov 21, 2013
    • Nov 19, 2013 A Transformed Community Nov 19, 2013
    • Nov 18, 2013 What Are You Seeking to Produce? Nov 18, 2013
    • Nov 15, 2013 Love is a Country Nov 15, 2013
    • Nov 14, 2013 What's in Your Tool-box? Nov 14, 2013
    • Nov 13, 2013 Equip the Saints Nov 13, 2013
    • Nov 12, 2013 Keeping Your Focus Nov 12, 2013
    • Nov 11, 2013 Real Life in the Local Church Nov 11, 2013
    • Nov 8, 2013 Lost in the Cosmos Nov 8, 2013
    • Nov 6, 2013 Are You Angry at God? Nov 6, 2013
    • Nov 5, 2013 God is Sovereign: Comforting or Terrifying? Nov 5, 2013
    • Nov 4, 2013 Lion or Lamb: Which Do You Need? Nov 4, 2013
    • Nov 1, 2013 Steps to Rebuild a Marriage Nov 1, 2013
  • October 2013
    • Oct 31, 2013 Immediate Actions To End An Affair Oct 31, 2013
    • Oct 30, 2013 Adultery: Who Do You Help? Oct 30, 2013
    • Oct 29, 2013 Adultery: Divorce or Rebuild? Oct 29, 2013
    • Oct 25, 2013 Typical Responses to an Affair Oct 25, 2013
    • Oct 23, 2013 Are All Affairs Alike Oct 23, 2013
    • Oct 22, 2013 Adultery: Alive and Well in Your Church? Oct 22, 2013
    • Oct 21, 2013 Hospital for Sinners Oct 21, 2013
    • Oct 18, 2013 Dangerous Blessings Oct 18, 2013
    • Oct 17, 2013 The Trinity and the New Atheists Oct 17, 2013
    • Oct 16, 2013 Delighting in the Trinity Oct 16, 2013
    • Oct 15, 2013 Does Gospel = Jesus? Oct 15, 2013
    • Oct 14, 2013 Present Grace Oct 14, 2013
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    • ADHD and Relationships
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    • Gospel Living
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TIM LANE

Tim is a national and international speaker with over 30 years of experience in pastoral ministry, theological education, counseling and executive management. His chief passion is to see people understand how the grace of Christ forgives, transforms and sustains the believer within the context of the local church. 

 
 

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